Can Kim Come Out and Play?
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Saturday, February 27, 2010Can Kim Come Out and Play?"One of the most obvious facts about grownups to a child is that they have forgotten what it is like to be a child." - Randall Jarrell I know many creative adults, and I think adults – as a whole – get a bad rap. We are creative, fun, innovative and playful creatures. The idea that adults, by virtue of their age and place in society, have lost the desire or ability to be playful and creative is bunk. Bunk I say! Even the most conservative minded business professionals I know are ready to laugh and dream if given a moment to do so. Perhaps it is the fact that children who grow up must develop some ability to set aside play and work through periods of methodical and measureable activity that is seen and misunderstood as losing the child-like gleam of creativity. Just because we can suspend fantasy doesn’t mean we have lost it – or its power. The perspective of a child might be that we are not willing or able to play, when in fact it may not be a smart time to lay aside work and reason for fancy. The challenge, for us as adults, isn’t so much to learn how to play. Our challenge is learning when to play (enough) and when to be serious and analytical – and even that statement isn’t right because good creativity is often hard, detailed work. The issue is about balance in how we spend our time, how we rest and relax, work and produce and remain energized spiritually. Carl Jung reportedly scheduled time each day, for a period of years, to simply go outback of his home and play. This play allowed him to better free his inner creative self and in some measure reinforced the most profound pieces of his thinking – his work. I guess I’m advocating that we give a little thought to how much time we are spending in the realms of the adult and child each week… I’m just saying. Labels: blogging, life on life's terms, quotes, spirituality Saturday, February 06, 20103 Wise Public Speaking TipsAfter one of my earliest public presentations had ended many people filed by and spoke words of appreciation and encouragement to me. After almost everyone else had left an elderly lady walked over to me and gave me some words of advice I have never forgotten. “Young man,” she said, “You need a good job for a beginner. I have some advice for you, if you want it.” I felt a little slighted, but told her I would welcome her feedback. “Well,” she continued,” Remember three these three things: 1. Stand up so they can see you. 2. Speak up so they can hear you, and 3. Once you have said what you came to say, Shut Up. You did ok on the first two, but you kept talking too long tonight. Leave us a little room for thinking.” Then she hugged me and shuffled off. I eventually got over the injury she inflicted on my pride, but I have never gotten over her words. Time and again I have returned to those words. 1. Stand Up – there are numerous skills that the public speaker needs to master in order for our appearance to assist in our communication. We need to be seen as a part of the message we are communicating. 2. Speak Up – clearly spoken, well chosen words projected to the back of the room will always command attention. 3. Shut Up – Every day presentation should have a beginning, a middle and an end. The end should be as precise as the beginning and must always leave room for people to draw their own conclusions and do their own thinking. Good advice for all of us who speak in public. Labels: public speaking, quotes, word play Sunday, January 10, 2010Quote Ita statement worth pondering...All things that are, Labels: blogging, quotes, spirituality, word play Tuesday, November 10, 2009Quoting
Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself, but talent instantly recognizes genius. - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
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Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night.
- Edgar Allan Poe Labels: life on life's terms, quotes, sacred moments Thursday, July 16, 2009Quoting
Try to learn something about everything and everything about something.
- Thomas H. Huxley Labels: quotes, spirituality Thursday, July 09, 2009QuotingFor a true writer each book should be a new beginning where he tries again for something that is beyond attainment. He should always try for something that has never been done or that others have tried and failed. Then sometimes, with great luck, he will succeed. -Ernest Hemingway (1899 - 1961), in his Nobel Prize acceptance speech Wednesday, May 06, 2009Quoting"It is a paradoxical but profoundly true and important principle of life that the most likely way to reach a goal is to be aiming not at that goal itself but at some more ambitious goal beyond it." - Arnold Toynbee
Tuesday, April 28, 2009Quoting- Ellen DeGeneres Labels: Ellen DeGeneres, quotes, word play Tuesday, April 21, 2009Quoting
If a man is offered a fact which goes against his instincts, he will scrutinize it closely, and unless the evidence is overwhelming, he will refuse to believe it. If, on the other hand, he is offered something which affords a reason for acting in accordance to his instincts, he will accept it even on the slightest evidence. The origin of myths is explained in this way.
- Bertrand Russell Monday, April 06, 2009Wednesday, March 11, 2009The Other Side of the Coin?!
Is it just me, or does this 'funny' line seem a bit discounting.
"What's the difference between a boyfriend and a husband? About 30 pounds." What if i were to say, "What's the difference between a girlfriend and a wife? About 30 pounds." How many women would be on my case about my abusive humor? So, why is it that we are more accepting of this towards men. This quote appeared on "The Quotations Page" and was populated to my iGoogle home page. I feel so used... Labels: blogging, emotion, gender stuff, quotes, word play Saturday, March 07, 2009Saturday, February 14, 2009Friday, January 09, 2009Quoting
If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.
- Hermann Hesse Labels: emotion, quotes, spirituality, word play Tuesday, December 23, 2008Quoting
Few people are capable of expressing with equanimity opinions which differ from the prejudices of their social environment. Most people are even incapable of forming such opinions.
- Albert Einstein Monday, November 03, 2008Quoting
Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted. - Martin Luther King Jr.
Labels: Martin Luther King, quotes, spirituality Friday, October 10, 2008Quoting
There are 10^11 stars in the galaxy. That used to be a huge number. But it's only a hundred billion. It's less than the national deficit! We used to call them astronomical numbers. Now we should call them economical numbers. - Richard Feynman
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Some mornings it just doesn't seem worth it to gnaw through the leather straps. - Emo Phillips
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Philosophy is a battle against the bewitchment of our intelligence by means of language. - Ludwig Wittgenstein
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